It's a statement my H has repeated before. It's a safe place to go. The ow can't put pressure on them or they walk out.
The trick is to figure out what the attraction was to begin with. And start doing that. In my H 's case, she listened to him. He talks alot. So, I have to listen to him so she isn't needed anymore. And so home is the "safe" place to be.
When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.
