He Ran Again! What Now?

[Livnlearn]

Cathy,

I don't think I have posted to your thread before, although I have read it regularly.

How fabulous that your H has chosen you and his family over OW!

I really hope you can both work things out and that your H takes the bull by the horns.

I wonder if you have the time in all this euphoria to answer a question about boundaries? I know you weren't happy about the idea of your son getting involved with OW, or H and her while drinking. Did you allow S to go over there? Did H want to take him there? How did you handle it?

I have a problem over on my thread about D going to stay the weekend with my H and his new OW. It's driving me crazy with worry, and H will call again this evening to no doubt ask the question again...

I would much appreciate any help or advice about this problem.

Livnlearn

PS Do you think that OW having all those "sad stories" was part of her attraction to your H in his time of crisis? It seems to be the dynamic of my H's two OW. He and OW can talk about their horrible spouses whom they have just left, and commiserate together.