mleigh4 - Although I don't live with H, our timetables are close, and my H, too, has been 'threatening' to 'end the marriage' since last summer. I have been tempted, too, to start the process myself, when I get tired of the uncertainty. For quite a while, I was afraid he would get it started, but then after he threatened to do it so many times - and then didn't - I stopped worrying about it. I just try to go on about my day as 'normal' (haha - what is THAT?). I can't let him ruin every day for me. I know I'll be ok no matter what, so it's not so scary anymore. Actually, it's getting downright annoying! And what you said about seeing him in a different light? Ditto. Yes, lots to think about...hang in there...
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15
