Yes I did thank God, because praying does work. Giving everything over to God. I was so ready for H to move out on Saturday, also. Deep down I knew he wasn't going to though. The look on his face was that or surprise when I told him to go ahead and move out and that S and I would be gone.
I was putting dishes away and heard the door open. H said come here a minute and I was like oh no. Went into the garage, his truck was still running. H said I'm moving back..I just groaned and said "are you going to stay this time?"
H then said he went back to OW's told her he was leaving, that's he's sick of her, sick of her sad stories and to NOT call him anymore. That he packed up all his stuff. Asked me to move my car over so that he could put his truck in the garage, he did that, gave me his cellphone and said throw it away.
What really moved my H was S not wanting to talk to him, it just broke my H's heart. That he didn't want to live the rest of his life with his S hating him which he said to OW, also.
I asked him what OW said about this and he said she was screaming at him when he left.
I have a meeting this morning, I will be back later with more of our conversation. I know H has problems and H knows he has problems.
I know my H hasn't changed any, don't know if he can change, but I have to give him the chance.
My H's feelings go deep and his way of dealing with his feelings is through anger. Deep down he is a hurt child.
