Well, soccer practice was canceled today because of rain. W did however meet us at Moes for dinner. My dad was also there. Conversation was lighter than normal, but everything was still pleasant.

I am thinking perhaps I was over confident in my assessment of W. After she drove off following dinner, she sent me a photo of her mom from when her mom was little to show me how she looked like S3. I replied 'we should have gone out for drinks tonight' That text was never answered. Maybe I have been pursuing too much. I had talked with my DB coach about what I have done, and her view was still positive over the past week, even though prior dinners were cancelled. She chose to look at the small positives. I wish I had 10 minutes left of DB time from today to follow up and see if I need to revisit my slow and steady ahead approach. Because right now I feel like reverting back to NC mode (kid friendly version).


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16