None of what you did sounds like DB to me. Did you read Michele's book(s)?

Your W gave up on the marriage and then you did. The circle is now complete.

What are you looking for here? I don't see a question or request for any advice.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl