Whew - ok. You made some very good points Matt and yes I have a lot to think about. My goal is to raise a respectful loving young man, and the example he is seeing from his father is anything but that. Oh don't get me wrong, H always has a smile on his face and is always pleasant..... while he is doing inappropriate things. Typical passive agressive behavior. My son and I have had some good talks about dad's behavior, he is very bright for a 7 year old. So, do I want my S to grow up thinking this is ok? No, absolutely not.
Thank you Matt. You've given me some good food for thought.
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-