BF, I see you are indeed 'Doing all right' since I last read here! Happy that h acknowledged mail sitch!!
It seems as though the general rule of thumb re: MLCer is not to not go 'over the top' re anything ... even slightly (!), as their 'meter readings' tend to reflect more overall sensitivity (re verbal feedback, enthusiasm re reaching out to LBS, etc). Conventional wisdom is to keep interaction polite, be nice, but not too effusive. A 'trim the fat' approach.
Take care & keep at it BF! (you've got your name to live up to!) pb
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pbetra ---- M: 15 yrs (in 2014) BD: 6/03/2014 Infidelity ('known' from July 2014) Denied PA Feb 2015 2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact. Back briefly 2017 (after family death) Separated 2017
as their 'meter readings' tend to reflect more overall sensitivity (re verbal feedback, enthusiasm re reaching out to LBS, etc). Conventional wisdom is to keep interaction polite, be nice, but not too effusive. A 'trim the fat' approach. 
