How123, sometimes when you are looking to get advice from others, but not getting the responses you're wanting, it helps to post on others' threads. This does two things -- it engages you with others who are in the same boat, and they are more likely to check out your thread and comment, and also you'll find that you will learn from the advice you give others. Then you can practice applying it to your own situation. Read the books and practice advising others based on what you learn there, and you'll find that more folks will engage with you, and you won't feel so alone.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!
