So when he decides to show his face again, do I ask him for rent money? lol. I can't even joke with him anymore, his sense of humor is gone, too.
Do I say hi how are you? What do you want? Do I know you? Aren't you S's dad?
Expectations? What are those again...hmmmmm.... okay they're gone!
Yes my H may be too far gone already. To come back now would just be too much for him, to stay where he's at would be more comfortable...for both of us.
The thing that boggles my mind is that it was so sudden. I don't think it was planned, know it wasn't planned. H had just been to the store to by some things, just wanted to watch a movie and not be bothered and then BOOM he's gone in FLASH.