i also thought this website had some interesting insight about the minds of people going through affairs/WAS

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/faq_bs.asp

Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed