Getting Started - Little Questions - Noob

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She is cake eating. She gets her emotional needs from OM and her security, comfort and help with her issues from you.

You WAW is in the fog, not you. She will lie, cheat, steal manipulate and deceive. The A is a drug. She is addicted.

There are 2 sides to the snooping and spying debate. I personally land on the side of gathering intel. Many, many, many others do not. Snooping can drive her away and make you crazy. If you are strong enough to handle it, and dont try to use what you find against her, I have found that having that intel is very valuable. Again, i hope a vet or 2 will swing by and help you better than I have.