WAW - no contact, now refuses therapy, file?

[AWAW]

I can say without a doubt to anyone newly in this WAW situation absolutely do not pursue, plead, beg, or even get angry. Hold it together and keep your cool.

Going NC provided results. WW asked to meet, so we did at a time of my choosing, her jaw dropped when she saw how fit I've become by hitting the gym. We talked for over 4 hours and she was definitely attracted. We met up 2 days later and had dinner then hooked up 3 times.

So, now things have really shifted and not in any rush to think this is fixed. She's agreed to go back to MC and was talking about the future (doing this or that for me/together). Our M is a total scrap heap right now but I was just days from filing for D and a little patience and GAL paid off. Roller coaster indeed. This will be a wild ride.

Absolutely take care of yourself as quickly as possible when you find yourself in a WAS situation.