She works with him. They have spent nights together several months ago at work related conferences.

They have taken days off together - "to talk". I found the hotel receipt when snooping (stopped that)

Lately, the overnight stays have ended - she has been home every night for 6-8 weeks.

She still works with him - I do not know what happens at work. I know she still has feelings for him. I have a feeling they are still physical - but not absolutely certain. I have not asked lately about what happens behind closed doors at work. Sometimes she does show up hours late after work and still makes random excuses for that - I do not know what to trust right now.

Since I have vowed off snooping and asking, I do not have any hard evidence.

I think things may be winding down with them, but I am not certain. She is sending me information about different job opportunities she has (within the same company at a different location). She is acting like she is coming closer to me. This all could be a cover though.


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015