Getting Started - Little Questions - Noob

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are you going to be ok living in an open marriage?
some here are going to tell you to ignore OM, some are going to tell you to confront the A.

The biggest challenge I faced was setting boundaries. It is very difficult to do and can be very confusing. read up on it, study it and practice it. Then you have to decide what boundaries you need to set to protect you and your kids.

Detaching is important too.
Hope a vet comes along soon to provide better insight for you!