Ok, had another DB coaching session. The goals for this week are more flirting, and more WOA. The coach seems to think I get positive reactions (more so over the summer) so slowly start to feel her out with more flirty behavior. If it does not get received well, then back off. Also, feel her out for the possibility of another date night. We have not really had once since she moved here, and I really have not asked. I have asked for family dinners and stuff. Not to rush it, but if I get positive movement from the WOA and flirts, then maybe take a shot. She does not want me to get stuck in the friendzone and we want to keep any positive movement forward moving forward. No stop and go stuff, as it would only build confusion for a W who does not want to lead, but follow.

I will see my W in just a bit for soccer practices so I will continue to be my charming happy self, and now maybe a little flirty.


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16