Ok, T, so, the "When?" part.... Please help me understand?

Is it referring to, for example, when to decide to change? Or when to take action? Or is it more of a scheduling it into your day thing....

You know, when I clean my closet, I remove it all until my closet is empty. Then I lay everything out all over the floor, and sort it. There are easy to throw away things. There are maybes. Then the keep pile. I go through that, and decide what I really need, and what I maybe don't need, but it has meaning and isn't taking more space than it's worth. Then, I neatly put the important stuff back in... That what this process feels like.

Usually I have a box of a few "undecided leftovers" that keep getting put back in the closet in a pile I never sort, and never use.

Also, my clean closet only lasts a few months, and I gotta do it all again.... Hmmm.

What does that tell ya.... Lol.