Thanks. I think I know I need to just go along with it, he "says" he would like to do even more. I think I just need to do my best to build my life around his offer and, really, even way less than that because there's no guarantee he will even pay, consistently, what he is offering.

Thanks, KML, you are right, I am still fighting for our R but I need to handle the D wisely in the meantime.


Me- 40 H- 41
S8, D5, S4
M 19 y T 23
Bomb drop 6/2013
H asked for/filed for D 9/2014
22 yo OW discovered 9/19/14 they're engaged and living together