Here's a question... One of Sandi's rules is to not schedule dates together...but what if the WAS contacts the LBS to do something like see a movie, or go to dinner, or attend some kind of event? Should the LBS accept? It would seem on the one hand a good sign that the WAS wants to do something with the LBS...but on the other hand, is the LBS being too available if he/she accepts the invitation? Would the proper tact be to accept some, but not all, invitations? It would certainly seem to be not in the LBS's best interest to have the WAS looking elsewhere for someone to invite to do these type of things...


H: 43
W: 37
M: 11 years
T: 12 years
S: 11
D: 8
ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14
MC started: 9/22/14
Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14
Piecing: 10/20/14