Oh, well Job, I pretty much new he was not really lying to me just not telling me something. He obviously feels guilty still and doesn't ant to get in "trouble". There is no reason to hid it but that's his personality.... He is making a huge effort to get along and wanting to do things around the house. He wanted to fix my door knob and said he'd do it when he dropped off the kids. I sent him a text saying he didn't need to do it. He replied back why?? I didn't respond. When he dropped off the kids he came in with his tools to fix it??? I don't know I am confused about his actions. I guess still wants to feel as if we need him or needs to take care of us?? I have also noticed he really shuts down arguments. Which is good! but also something new. Usually, he will get mad and fight will last a day or so. I should be happy I know, just confused by his changes. Any advise as to how I should proceed. Insist he doesn't do things, or embrace it? He still has his "love of his life" not that, that matters. I have been really trying to keep communication short and only about kids when necessary.
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M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.