You've received sound advice. Ultimately, you need to protect yourself and family financially. Kml said it well when she said don't confuse fighting the divorce as fighting for your R. I know it sounds devoid of love, however D is a business transaction. Fighting the date of separation or haggling over dates does you no favors and won't make your h say," geez, I'm ready to work on his."
You have to do what you think is best. However, it looks like a nice offer.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer