Hi everyone:) about 4 months ago my common law wife of 11yrs gave me the I love you but not in love with you talk and said she wanted us to split up she said I never made her feel loved though I did love her but I admit I neglected the relationship and took her for granted, we carried on living in the same house for the next 2 months but there was a lot of tension though one time we did have sex but she told me not to read anything into it, after 2 months I moved in with my elderly parents after she started going out with friends and not coming home till the next day well now I have moved out she has been really nice to me cooking meals and sending them to my parents house she also turns up all the time and we make small talk and I never bring up the relationship but she never talks about us getting back together, oh and I forgot to mention we have 3 children who we both absolutely adore, now do I just carry on with things as they are and hope eventually she might want me back I don't want to start talking about the relationship again as it just pushed her further away?
