Wife having emotional affair part 2

[3kids]

PM, in the last couple of months I have heard all of the above. Time, space, divorce, and seperation. There is no specific thing that she is asking for. The one specific thing that I can honestly say that I might think she needs is time. She is trying to figure out what she wants me or OM. She has made comments on how if in six months or so that she has decided that she wants or marriage or life. And I have moved on then she has lost out on that choice. If that makes any sense. She has also made comments that OM has pushed her a little to make a choice on what she wants in life.