Depressed WAW, digging in, learning about myself

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You are in love with the idea of who your wife used to be, not the person who is currently dragging you through emotional chaos. Don't get confused!

I've really had to remind myself of this lately. She's always fought depression, but it's at a whole new level now, I think. And the woman who gave birth to our D 2 years ago would have never just walked away like this, without any effort to fix things, without a very, very serious reason to do so. I'm praying for her depression, offering any support she'll accept, but otherwise trying to detach from her sitch. I can't fix her depression.