I just posted back to snodderly and I'm rethinking where H is in his MLC hell. I think he's in all four at the same time and he's going to explode soon! Very soon. I will not get angry, I just don't have it in me. Saturday night I did not yell at my H, I was angry, but I didn't yell. My lesson is that I need to practie patience and to not get angry AGAIN!
I am secure in myself, I'll be fine either way. But, I really won't take the abuse any longer.
I haven't heard from him either, he's hiding in his hell. My H does want to come back, I know that, but he's not ready. Someone, something needs to push him over the edge and some 180's from me won't hurt either
