and the MLC folks here seem wiling to wait yeas for the WS to work though things . . .
with strong boundaries in place. Any good vet MLC'er will tell you that it's more important than EVER if you're going to "stand" for any length of time.
Also, the MLC landscape is littered with a lot of pain and damage in that amount of time, if you don't do it right. Only the cream of the crop can pull it off, in my observation. I don't believe that 95% of men can go more than 6 months without severe damage to their emotional well-being.
