New here, my fairytale gone wrong

[Lifes Twists]

Hey Luv,

If you are hoping the contesting /counseling is going to make him change his mind forget about it. It will have just the opposite reaction and force him farther away. My lawyer tried to get my wife last year to go to a form of counseling and it just made things worse. I would go for the most you can get from the offer. Take care of your kids and yourself for now and put the marriage in a box for later. If he wakes up before or after the D it will be in his own time. Don't try and block the D, don't carry it or force it along,just don't stand in the way.