DBing Again -- Need Support Now

[Shakspr]

I'll echo what Georgiabelle said...detach. Encourage friendly exchange, validate, be decent. But continue your GAL and let him pursue - but don't always be available (that includes intimacy). You are not a "side" piece for his convenience while he boots you out.

I absolutely support you in trying to maintain/strengthen the R with your SD. Children have too few good people in their lives, and plenty of influences trying to tear them down. If you want to help with karate, GREAT. But don't use it as a tool to maintain contact with H.

More to follow, but work beckons. Have an amazing day.