I agree too. That's exactly what I'm doing. I know I've got to be patient. I was pretty much just venting here.

Thanks for the encouragement.

Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.