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"Hi H, Hope you are doing well. I spoke with the real estate agent regarding terminating the lease. They require a signature from both of us to make the notice of termination effective. Please sign the attached letter and send back to me by Wednesday so that I can forward to XX. Fine for you to make changes. With thanks, G"

"Hi G, The signed ppwk is attached. Just let me know if when you would prefer me to collect the remainder of the items from the house. Kind Regards, H"

Thanks for that, H! On the one hand - great, I can can officially terminate our lease. On the other hand - these business exchanges are really not working for me!!! Makes me want to scream!

Questions:

1) One of the issues my H raised about our R was that there was "too much "admin", not enough fun". But, like, there are just some things we gotta do you know?! I'd love some feedback - could I have written my email differently to solicit a different response?

2) So how should I handle the move? He's taken 98% of his stuff. I'm bound to come across the other 2% when I pack up. As for the joint stuff, he isn't interested in any of it.

I just don't get it. My empathy tank is running low these days…