The issues she recently stated she had with me were... I always controlled her apparently and never felt listened to enough. Strange as i thought we always made joint decisions.
Jay, I'm not the walk away in my M, but I can tell you I feel exactly like your W does here. If you ask my H, he says we made joint decisions. If you ask me, we discussed it a bit, then I caved to make him happy. Just saying you should consider this might have happened in your case, too.