Thanks I appreciate the perspective. I suspect you are right.

She is asking if she can come over tomorrow night to hang out. Do I try and find an activity for us to do together? How should we spend the time?

I spoke to a mutual friend tonight who talked with her on sunday. Sounds like W is feeling like we have a lot going for us except has not felt the passion for a while. And that is a big deal for her. She seemed to say this is less about something i did vs her having the confidence to stand up for how she feels.

I believe the passion is something we can work on if we both choose to. Right now she isnt choosing to work on that.

Our friend said i need to be patient and give her time.


M(32), W(32)
T: 12yrs
M: 5yrs
D-Day: 7/12/14
ILYBNILWY: ~8/2/14
S: 8/20
Discovered OM: 8/20/