Thanks I appreciate the perspective. I suspect you are right.
She is asking if she can come over tomorrow night to hang out. Do I try and find an activity for us to do together? How should we spend the time?
I spoke to a mutual friend tonight who talked with her on sunday. Sounds like W is feeling like we have a lot going for us except has not felt the passion for a while. And that is a big deal for her. She seemed to say this is less about something i did vs her having the confidence to stand up for how she feels.
I believe the passion is something we can work on if we both choose to. Right now she isnt choosing to work on that.
Our friend said i need to be patient and give her time.