Hi Cathy,

I am so sorry to read what happened over the weekend but am glad that you're back to your old self. I'm usually not around on the weekends.

I didnt' want to respond at first since I dont' have anything good to say....your H just makes me so angry! Your H and my H both!

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H truly thinks the only person he's hurt in this whole thing is me. It stunned me when he said that. I said "you've hurt a lot more people than that" and he wanted to know who! Hello!!!



These guys are in such denial. You know, I don't care how they rationalize this in their sad little brains....what they're doing is infidelity and abandonment. They are hurting their children most of all. Is this why they have children...so that they can hurt them?

Sorry, didn't mean to vent and rant on your thread.

Just remember: you are a wonderful, caring, and special lady; you don't deserve to be treated this way.

Continue to stay strong and remain detached...for your sake and the little guys' sake.

Minnie