Thanks GB and Job. I think I will sit on it for a while, maybe mention it next time I see him. It just hurts to see him hurting so much. I am not generally a 'fixer' and my brain knows I can't fix him, but I guess maybe my heart is still learning that lesson. <sigh>
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15