Am I on the right track?

[MrBond]

"I didn't tell her things that bothered me,"

Like what?

"and she didn't tell me things that bothered her."

Like what?

"We haven't argued in years."

I really call BS on this. EVERY couple has conflict. If you didn't, you wouldn't be in this predicament now.

So she never spoke under her breath or complained to you about anything in over 13 years?

Look, to be honest, if you don't give us things to discuss, we can't help you. You can't hope that her A will just fizzle out and that she'll go back to you, unless you give her something that she wants to go back to. And that includes a new you.

No one will be able to help you because evidently everything was perfect. I mean, why do you think you're even here?