So, here I am asking for help, like Job promissed some time in one of my therads, to post here when H contacts me again and "we help you come up with the reply". So, today is the date when H transfers money to my account for the condo payment. He texted "Transferred xxxx to your account." Five minutes later I got another text "Thanks for the mail". Wow, I got appreciated... Like he read my recent posts...

I'm thinking to reply "You are welcome. Thanks for letting me know about the money". Or, shoud be more elaborate?

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state