Hey Dawgy - rough day. Sorry about that - you have told me to relax before. relax - don't let that anger get the best of you, teach your kids with your compassion and patience.
You said that you don't know if you can love her if she moves in w/ OM. Remember it's her journey and you have forgiveness and love now, you will have forgiveness and love later - you cannot turn that off. If you love her enough now, you can love her later too. The ball will be in your court to decide what you want.
You can still be the lighthouse. keep it up and she will see your light
It is so amazing how one-sided this fight is right now, but I read all the time here that it will catch up with her (I wait with you).
Thank you FunDad for what you have written today - it really helped me too.
Last edited by u-turn; 09/15/1410:06 PM.
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015
