Let him set the pace. If he gives you a high five, you don't get to hug him. If you go faster than him, he'll feel like you're not on his team anymore and you'll back track.
by jpLove
Found that on stacey9's thread. Great way to look at it jpLove! I'm not following that advice and I should. When she gives me a kiss I go for another. When she sits beside me I put my arm around her. I should just let her kiss me and leave it at that. Or just let her sit beside me and get comfortable with that without me pawing at her. It's just so hard to do, as I want to show her my love, but I know her LL is not physical touch but rather conversation. So I need to keep that in mind and control my urges. Let her set the pace.
Last edited by PeterV2; 09/15/1409:28 PM.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
