newbie need help needs help part 4

[MrBond]

"Even though he knows I'm ready, willing and able to fix things between us, it's just easier to screw someone else and then walk away. "

This isn't true of the WAS. Just because the LBS decides to change, it doesn't mean that the WAS has an obligation to do so. In fact, in many cases, prior to a bomb drop, the WAS will leave little clues of their unhappiness. Sometimes they come out as seemingly "passive-aggressive" comments, or nagging. It's because they may not understand and can't express why they're unhappy.

Many LBS's are like that as well.