So sorry to hear you got served, ft. Not that it helps but know that my W did the same thing. She told me that she wasn't even going to see a lawyer and a week later, I got served. Not unusual. They lie about the dumbest things. It's not like he can say "Oh, I didn't mean to file. It just happened!".
Great to hear he filed in PA by the way! Much better stater than the one I'm in!