You know, our women can't help but respond to tenderness and self-sacrifice. I love this line that I have learned here:

"It's not what I want, but I won't stand in your way"

It's ultimate freedom. You are free from trying to control her and she's free to run the course. It does not mean you will help her, it's just means that you aren't going to waste time & energy trying to control her decisions. The PMA and GAL stuff helps change your mental attitude so you can help give up control. That's what I'm doing now, and it can be really good. There are of course low points where I'm crying my eyeballs out, but that will pass.

Hang in there.

Me:40
W:39
M:Dec 95
Split: Jul 14
W Filed: 9/16/14
Several Children
(including adopted)