I'd love for 25years or another vet to weigh in on my slight developments.
I have found my inertia, I have a pretty good PMA most days, I am feeling good, job hunting, practicing yoga, really enjoying time with my D and time with H (though I'm trying to limit those a bit because I don't want to inundate him).
There is so much out of my control but I feel like I'm on the right path here.
I'm giving H plenty of time and space to work through his anger. He's not even thinking about the marriage at this point, he's trying to heal himself. I get that. I've created a lot of damage in my wake.
We get along quite well. We haven't exchanged a cross word in quite a while. We hang out well in public and in private. We are GREAT coparents.
Still, I'd like to know if there's more I can do on myself and in my situation.
