When the OW's baby daddy revealed the A to me you can be absolutely certain he was the very last person I wanted to turn to for support. Nor did I have any desire whatsoever to support anything about his $&@ of a girlfriend. I was 100% in kill the messenger mode. Just the sight of his name made me nauseous. In fact I don't like to say that name out loud anymore, even when it refers to someone other than him.
I say now that he may have done me a kindness by letting me know. But I'm not sending him chocolates for doing me such a dubious favor.
Follow MWD. Just because something makes sense from your perspective doesn't make it the right thing to do.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
