Hey Dawgy - you've made my day man. Glad your calmed down a bit. Good job! I thought my wife moving out was going to be unimaginable also. But you know what, the space has been good in some ways. It's brought a peace for both of us. It's a false peace because we are in limbo, but still, the space is working. It can work for you too. Just tell people she "Needs Some Space Now". If they ask for what, just tell them for an "Unresolved Personal Issue" (Credit: "God's not Dead" Movie). You have given her space, she gives you time, you protect her secret. Meanwhile, she knows that she's causing you and the kids great pain while you protect her at your expense. Not too many women can take that kind of conviction on their hearts. Later she comes back, asks for forgiveness, and you are the hero. Just like this:

http://www.faithit.com/wow-literally-wept-adulterous-wife-texted-husband-can-i-come-home/


Me:40
W:39
M:Dec 95
Split: Jul 14
W Filed: 9/16/14
Several Children
(including adopted)