Ok guys , points taken . I havent told her i was going to sue her I just told her she has to leave if those boudaries are crossed . Im not a fool . However it feels like if she leaves and moves in with OM i will never forgive her for that . To hurt me and the kids to that magnitude , Im sorry but thats the ultimate cruel thing a spouse and a mother can do to her family and right now I cant imagine forgiving her for that . Its just too cruel . Having an A is terrible but leaving your family and moving in with OM is unimaginable . If that happens I will never take her back and the marriage is over . I can forgive alot , and already have but I could never forgive or forget that pain .
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
