Is what you're doing working? You've been separated for 2 months which in the scheme of things isn't all that long. If what you're doing is working and you feel strong and like you're the person you want to be, then keep on doing what you're doing.
Limbo [censored] but it's out of our control. You can choose to see it as limbo or as an opportunity to do your own thing while the future of your marital status remains undecided. Your perspective here is what matters.