Hey Dawg. Taking your anger out on her or OM will only push her further and help her justify her actions.

I'm so sorry man, I really am. Don't forget - YOU ARE A GOOD MAN. You are a good father. You will show those kids what true love is, and how a man dishes that out. It's hard to stand alone in the crap, but you CAN and you MUST. Here's the key - forgiving her now will set you free. Hard to do I know, but it's so true.

Try this: http://www.marriagetoday.com/overcoming-unforgiveness/

I'm only a month in and I watch this at least once a week, I know 6 mo of torture has to be grueling, but you need to find a way to get your mind back without being negative.

FunDad

Me:40
W:39
M:Dec 95
Split: Jul 14
W Filed: 9/16/14
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