Are you hoping to win your W back with those boundaries?
These sort of boundaries are the things that will make any progress or hope you've got disappear like water on a hot summer day.
Originally Posted By: Tarheel
Not texting in front of the kids is one thing, but if she leaves, you're going to sue her? Please tell me you haven't told her that.
The only suing you can do in this instance is suing for divorce. If that's your plan, then I guess it's your plan...but that's going to open a can of worms from which your R will never recover.
Is this "more of the same" behavior for you? Firm boundaries (IE: "There will be no working on US while OM is in the picture, period, because it's disrespectful to me and our M") give her responsibility for her actions. She has a choice.
What you're talking about is ultimatums and those ALWAYS backfire.
Last edited by Two Sided Coin; 09/15/1405:21 PM.
BF:40 M:33 SD: 12 T: 8, never married, no kids together BD: 8/4, "I'm just done", "...too tired and burnt to try". PA confirmed 8/5 "It happened, but it's been over for almost a year".
