Its just crazy how they can turn completely away from someone they have been with for so long. just venting I guess.
Crazy, indeed. Mind-boggling even. And why not talk things over rather than opting for an affair?
My H thinks "we did work on it" but in truth he only made passive-aggressive comments I was supposed to understand meant he had issues.
Even though he knows I'm ready, willing and able to fix things between us, it's just easier to screw someone else and then walk away.
I don't know if it's laziness, pessimism, being a "quitter" or what, but....
I'm starting to think those that are like the LBS -- those who see value in the R, in the WAS, and in love itself...are a different class of individual.
BF:40 M:33 SD: 12 T: 8, never married, no kids together BD: 8/4, "I'm just done", "...too tired and burnt to try". PA confirmed 8/5 "It happened, but it's been over for almost a year".
