So, I just got served, via the USPS with divorce papers. My H didn't even have the decency to tell me he filed (even when I specifically said "hey, there's no reason I need to tell my family about this, at this point it's only a conversation, nothing has actually been done" when he knew all along he had filed just days earlier.
The good news is that H filed for D in PA rather than in my state. This means he will have to prove we have been separated for 2 years (which he tries to claim is the day he went out there, not true, he left for work only in Nov 2012 and has been there and coming home monthly ever since, all of his stuff is still at my house, he still lives here too!) which I will contest with all of my paperwork showing we were still a couple up until he said he wanted a D on 8/27/14. So, at least this gives me the option to contest the D and hopefully drag it out long enough for him to somewhat come to his senses.
At least he didn't wait until next week to serve me, that is the week of our anniversary and that would have really stung even worse.
Me- 40 H- 41 S8, D5, S4 M 19 y T 23 Bomb drop 6/2013 H asked for/filed for D 9/2014 22 yo OW discovered 9/19/14 they're engaged and living together
